What up, what up

At first I complained because I felt like I wasn't needed and come June I feel like I don't have enough hours in a day. What gives? I'm not really complaining though because it means I'm occupied and I LOVE it. So here's what I've been up to and why it's been so quiet.

My duty as MOH becomes more and more hectic the closer the wedding gets. Slowly but surely I'm getting into the swing of it and it's fun. Although I love weddings I must say that the more classes I take on gender the less I want a wedding of my own. Yes, I'm engaged but must I really have the whole shebang?! It's so much stress and for what? $15,000 of debt and months of planning for 8 hours you won't remember. No thanks, gimme the money and allow us to spend it how we please. Plus, has anyone noticed how ads only bother to sell us the wedding but nothing on the actual marriage? The more classes I take on gender the more confusing life becomes but man is it interesting and exciting.

Speaking of gender, have I mentioned that I decided to do a double major: English Lit/Women Studies. I have this passion for sexuality and how we perform our gender and the way we perform it so effortlessly or how we try to avoid it yet we are still marginalizing ourselves. I love it. We are indeed strange creatures but beautiful creatures nonetheless. School's kicking my butt and it's painful but it's worth it.

So here's what you missed in May and June (so far):

A "Wedding Countdown Celebration" was thrown for the lovely couple you see below. 

 I've know this dude for 11 years, he's like the brother my parents never gave me. I love him like if he was blood.

We went to Dis-nay for Memorial Day weekend and acted like responsible and serious adults (as shown below).

                                     

 

June 4th I got to see my FAVORITE Singer-Songwriter: Dallas Green aka City and Colour

Summer starts next and I can't believe my birthday is 6 months away. Any summer plans?